Fair Play names the invisible work. Kaia does it.
The mental load doesn't have to be balanced between two people, it can be offloaded to a third.
“I've done the Fair Play system with my husband for two years. In two weeks with Kaia, more got done than in two years of negotiating.”
Every household task has three layers, Conception (knowing it needs doing), Planning (figuring out how), Execution (doing it). The reason one partner burns out isn't the doing, it's carrying the first two alone.
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Knowing it needs to happen
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Figuring out how and when
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Actually doing it
Fair Play asks you to redistribute the cards between two partners.
Kaia removes them from the deck.
Click any card to see exactly what Kaia handles.
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Grocery Shopping
Kaia Owns
Meals (Weekday Dinner)
Kaia Owns
Meals (Weekend Dinner)
Kaia Owns
Meals (School Lunch)
Kaia Owns
Meals (Adult Lunch)
Kaia Supports
Meals (Breakfast)
Kaia Supports
Snacks & Drinks
Kaia Supports
Dishes
Kaia Supports
Laundry
Kaia Supports
Tidying & Organizing
Kaia Supports
Home Maintenance
Kaia Owns
Home Goods & Supplies
Kaia Owns
Home Improvement
Kaia Supports
Yard & Landscaping
Kaia Supports
Cleaning (Deep Clean)
Kaia Supports
Car Maintenance
Kaia Owns
Bills & Utilities
Kaia Owns
Morning Routine (Kids)
Kaia Supports
Bedtime Routine
Kaia Supports
Diapering & Potty Training
Kaia Supports
Bathing & Grooming (Kids)
Needs You
Medical (Kids)
Kaia Owns
Dental (Kids)
Kaia Owns
Health Insurance
Kaia Owns
Childcare (Nanny/Sitter)
Kaia Owns
Pets
Kaia Owns
Sick Days (Kids)
Kaia Supports
Special Needs
Kaia Supports
Discipline & Screentime
Kaia Supports
Homework
Kaia Owns
School Forms & Paperwork
Kaia Owns
Teacher Communication
Kaia Owns
Tutoring & Coaching
Kaia Supports
Extracurriculars
Kaia Owns
School Breaks & Summer
Kaia Owns
Reading & Learning
Kaia Supports
College Planning
Kaia Supports
Birthday Celebrations (Kids)
Kaia Owns
Birthday Celebrations (Adults)
Kaia Owns
Holiday Cards & Gifts
Kaia Owns
Thank You Notes
Kaia Owns
Extended Family
Kaia Supports
Parents & In-Laws
Kaia Supports
Friendships (Yours)
Needs You
Marriage & Partnership
Needs You
Social Plans (Couples)
Kaia Owns
Gestures of Love
Needs You
Weekend Plans (Family)
Kaia Owns
Travel Planning
Kaia Owns
Packing
Kaia Owns
Restaurants & Dining Out
Kaia Owns
Transportation & Carpooling
Kaia Supports
Kids' Social Lives
Kaia Supports
Community & Volunteering
Needs You
Hosting & Entertaining
Kaia Supports
Medical (Adults)
Kaia Owns
Dental (Adults)
Kaia Owns
Fitness & Exercise
Needs You
Mental Health & Self-Care
Needs You
Grooming & Wardrobe
Kaia Owns
Healthy Living (Kids)
Kaia Owns
Budget & Financial Planning
Kaia Supports
Subscriptions & Memberships
Kaia Owns
Insurance (Home/Auto)
Kaia Supports
Taxes & Documents
Kaia Supports
Savings & College Fund
Needs You
Fun & Playing
Needs You
Hard Conversations
Needs You
Spiritual & Values
Needs You
Safety & Emergency Prep
Kaia Supports
Death & End of Life
Needs You
Civic Engagement & Voting
Needs You
Charitable Giving
Needs You
Photo & Memory Keeping
Kaia Owns
Calendar & Scheduling
Kaia Owns
The capabilities that explain how she achieves 79%.
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Medical, Dental, Auto, Home Maintenance, Insurance, Subscriptions
“Kaia, book Emma's 6-month dental checkup and cancel that gym membership we haven't used since April.”
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Dishes, Laundry, Cleaning, Tidying, Morning Routine, Bedtime Routine
“Kids earn stars. Parents set thresholds. The reward system runs itself.”
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All 5 Meals cards + Groceries
“15 meal ideas. Your picks become a meal plan and grocery list. Review your cart and check out when you’re ready.”
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Bedtime Routine, Fun and Playing, Gestures of Love
“Make a story about a dragon named Ford who loves soccer, done in under a minute.”
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Weekend Plans, Social Plans, Meals (weekday dinner)
“The Saturday 'what should we do?' debate? Kaia surfaces three options.”
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Teacher Communication, Thank You Notes, Extended Family
“Kaia, email Jake's teacher that he'll miss Friday, doctor's appointment.”
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School Forms, Packing Lists, Birthday Celebrations, Travel
“Birthday invitation. Beach trip packing list. Holiday card. Text it. It's handled.”
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Tutoring and Coaching, School Breaks, Special Needs
“Socratic method by text. Kaia guides thinking, asks leading questions.”
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The 16 cards you keep aren't burden. They're the point.
Hard conversations. Bedtime presence. Marriage and romance. Fun and playing.
Kaia clears the board so you can actually be there for those.
For those who've read the book, here's exactly how she works at each layer.
“We spent six months trying to redistribute our Fair Play cards. Some weeks it worked. Most weeks it didn't, because even when my husband 'owned' a card, I still had to remember to remind him. Kaia doesn't need reminding.”
Sarah M.
Mom of 3, Boston
“She called the pediatrician, got on hold, confirmed the appointment, and texted me the details. That used to take me 40 minutes and three interruptions at work.”
Priya K.
Working mom, Austin
“I travel for work twice a month. My kids used to FaceTime me just to say goodnight. Now they FaceTime AND ask Kaia to read them a story. It sounds small. It doesn't feel small.”
Marcus T.
Father of 2, Chicago
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